Thursday, September 15, 2016

Week 105 - Highlands Ranch - On my way home.

Sister Brierley
Hello everyone,

This was my last week. I will be coming home on Wednesday around 5PM. This was a good last week. It still has been difficult but it was a good last week.

Two years has flown by. The mission experience was nothing close to what I imagined. It has been the best two years and the hardest two years. I honestly will cherish my mission for the rest of eternity and it has been the best experience of my life. I have come to grow closer to my heavenly father and have learned his Gospel. I have found that God has taught me very valuable lessons which I can apply for the rest of my life. I noticed there tended to be one lesson per transfer. So here we go

20 lessons of a Full-Time missionary
People can Change
The District
I have learned that change is ever present. Through the atonement of Jesus Christ we can repent and change to become more like him. There is no lost cause. I myself have changed into something much better than I was before, and I can continue to change.

Love the People
I have learned to love the people. People I would have never expected. I will miss them and that is one of the major reasons I don't want to come home. It is hard to say goodbye, but I can leave knowing that I have made a difference in their lives. When we love someone it gives us the opportunity to lift them higher. You are able to sympathize and see where they are coming from. This allows you to see a little bit of what God sees in them.

I Know Nothing / Humility
The Lennburgs
I have learned that I know nothing. I thought I knew the gospel really well back home but I have realized that I can continue to learn. This helped me to make a goal to read the entire standard works. I accomplished my goal with the exception of the second half of the new testament which I will be taking a class on in school. I have also learned to be humble and if you want to be humble, then prepare, because it will be hard.

Patience
This has been the Christlike attribute I have worked on most of my mission. I have learned to be patient with those I teach and with myself. The biggest trial with patience was with companions. I had some challenging companions which required me to be patient. If we are patient we can withstand many of the challenges of life.

I've Been Blessed Beyond My Own Understanding
The Price family with Catherine
I have come to realize that God showers blessings. Just like rain you can't comprehend all the rain at once, however it touches you and is all around you. That is very similar to God's blessings. I often would recognize these as I wrote one miracle of the day at the beginning of my mission.

Hard Work
I have learned to work hard. I had many things that held me back, such as companions and illness/injuries, but I have found that you can still work hard with those. Hard work also encompasses smart work. If you are struggling, God can increase your capacity to deal with hard things.

God is in Control
I have learned that God is in control of everything.
I often would work hard and some of the things I did would miraculously work out. I was never a good finder but God would often lead or put people in our path that we could help. A mission lets you see God's hand in many different things and makes you realize that you are merely a tool in His hands. 

Joy and Pain
On my mission I have been the most joyful and most miserable. It really is a roller-coaster. The Joy out ways the pain so much more but in order to feel that joy you have to understand pain.

Companions: Learning and TeachingThe only thing I remember from my setting apart blessing is "companions" repeated multiple times. I have helped many companions on my mission
with many different things, such as giving them hope, teaching, obedience, and other things. I in return have learned many valuable lessons from companions which many of the things in this list came from. I have understood that you can learn from and teach anyone.

Don't Be to Harsh on YourselfI am a perfectionist and on a mission that is pretty much impossible. A mission is designed to have some failure. This got me really down at times. I realized that I was being very self-critical and that it was holding me back. We often times have to change our twisted perspectives on what success is and  see ourselves through God's eyes. One of the hardest things about repentance is forgiving ourselves. My favorite quote talks about this. It is "Let go of the past and Keep Moving Forward" ~ Walt Disney.

Perspective and AttitudeLike I said before perspective is so important. But along with that we must have a great Attitude. A positive attitude allows us to see the world in a much brighter context. It keeps us happy as well and when challenges come we can conquer it.

Communication and Working in UnityIf you want to work in unity you have to communicate. Most problems come from miscommunication. Effective communication can bring a new perspective into another's intentions and allows you to resolve issues.

I'm Here to Help Other's Come Unto ChristEveryone is on a different part of their journey. I have found that the journey has many steps. Faith, Repentance, keeping and making Covenants and Ordinances, Following the Holy Ghost's promptings, and enduring to the end. Missionaries don't just baptize but bring others to Christ by helping them develop these things. I often found that I helped members Endure to the End by helping them embrace the gospel more and missionary work.

Trials Help us GrowI can't say I enjoy trials, but they help us grow and become more like the Savior.

Godly Sorrow/ Don't Let Mistakes Define YouI realized that I was letting some mistakes of my past define me. After talking about it with my favorite companion, Elder Legler, he taught me about Godly Sorrow. If we can see ourselves through God's eyes then we will understand that he wants us to succeed. He will forgive us quickly. Every night if we account to the Lord the good and the bad and then let go and improve we can have the burden of sin lifted. Forgiveness includes forgiveness of one's self and of others. I have learned to define myself by who I am and not from evil past deeds.

Me MyselfGod sent me here to be Myself and to use my talents and skills to help those around me. There were some people that only I could influence on my mission. I have had the opportunity to use my talents to bless others and to help the work move forward. I have opened up a lot on my mission and if someone can see the genuine feelings and attitudes I have I can connect with them better.

The Will of God, Is Not MineGod has a unique plan for me. That plan is different then mine. There were situations that I was placed in on my mission that I thought would not work at all. However, they each had a purpose. God can see ahead and knows what is best for us, so we must turn our will over to his.

Endure to the EndThe end of my mission has been so difficult. With injuries, and challenging companions, it has been hard. Endurance is not easy, but it requires all the lessons learned above. Really it requires the accumulative lessons learned. We must apply them all to endure to the end. I am at the end now and it was so worth it.

This is the One and only true church authorized to do God's work.
God's Love and the Atonement of Jesus Christ can help us be saved from all things.

I love you all, but more importantly I love God. This has been the greatest experience  of my life and I am sad to leave. I have loved my mission and it means the world to me, But I am ready to move on. now it is time to take the lessons I have learned and apply them as the foundation for the rest of my life. I know that this work is important, that God love's us, that Jesus is the Christ and that this is the only true church of God.

Till Wednesday
Elder Dallin S Pulsipher

Week 104 - Highlands Ranch

Hello Everyone,

This was an interesting week.

I really enjoyed serving with Elder Jaynes. We got along really well and it helped with the tension of the companionship. Unfortunately he went home on Saturday. He made a few mistakes on his mission. I will miss him.

The tension between Elder Robinson and I has been up and down. We get along at times and other times we don't. But I will just do my best.

This week was good. We tried some new people. In one house there are some boys who are active but the father is not and the mother is not a member. We went to visit them. We had a great conversation until the father walked into the room. The whole mood changed at that point. He was cordial but we could tell that he wasn't happy to see us. So I noticed they love Star Wars so I said hi introduced myself and them talked Star Wars. It led into a great conversation about this new 3d gaming software. While it wasn't spiritual it was what was needed to help him trust us a little more. By the end the mood was restored and he lightened up. One of the things I realized on my mission is that you need to connect with people to gain their trust. Sometimes that is talking about Star Wars.

It has been a very reflective week this week. I have been reviewing my journals and writing (to the best of my ability) about each of the lessons I have learned on my mission. I have been writing one major lesson for each transfer and it is crazy how there has been one. Sometimes I don't learn or realized I learned it until later, but there was a message God had for me in each area. Next week my email will be centered on that.

Anyways I am excited to see you all in 9 days.

This mission has been one if not the best experience of my life. I can't wait to see what God has in store for me next,

Till next time, which is the last time
Elder Dallin S Pulsipher


P.S. You were probably expecting pictures. Don't worry I have been taking them but I want you to be extremely excited to see me when I got off that plane so I will forbear :)

Week 103 - Highlands Ranch

This was a very interesting week.

First of all we got another companion for the rest of the Transfer, Elder Jaynes. I like him a lot and it has relieved some of the pressure between me and my normal companion. We still don't really get along but  we try and work through it. Work here has been very slow because of everything that has gone on, but hopefully it will pick up this week with school starting soon.

This is the first time I have been in a trio and I was honestly very anxious about it, but it seemed to work out great. One night we got a call at 8:30 to come to the mission office to pick up our new companion. We didn't talk much that first night, but the next day I got to know him really well when Elder Robinson wasn't feeling well. He is from southern Georgia. We have gotten along great.

There was one point this week that was particularly hard. It seems as though this is one of the most challenging parts of my mission, with the crash, areas and companionships. I can't lie, it has been hard to stay strong near the end, However two things come to mind. During the particularly hard day the words to "Be Still My Soul" came to mind. 

  1. 1. Be still, my soul: The Lord is on thy side;
    With patience bear thy cross of grief or pain.
    Leave to thy God to order and provide;
    In ev'ry change he faithful will remain.
    Be still, my soul: Thy best, thy heav'nly Friend
    Thru thorny ways leads to a joyful end.
  2. 2. Be still, my soul: Thy God doth undertake
    To guide the future as he has the past.
    Thy hope, thy confidence let nothing shake;
    All now mysterious shall be bright at last.
    Be still, my soul: The waves and winds still know
    His voice who ruled them while he dwelt below.
  3. 3. Be still, my soul: The hour is hast'ning on
    When we shall be forever with the Lord,
    When disappointment, grief, and fear are gone,
    Sorrow forgot, love's purest joys restored.
    Be still, my soul: When change and tears are past,
    All safe and blessed we shall meet at last.
Honestly, Everything will work out in the end. He allows certain things to happen to help us grow. Keep an eternal perspective. I am at the end and the best is yet to come.

The second thing is something that a wise ward mission leader taught me near the beginning of my mission. His name is Bro Gustavson. He is one of the greatest men I have ever met. He showed a video of a football player making a winning touchdown. When he gets near the end within a yard he starts to celebrate and drops the ball thinking he has crossed the line. However the ball stays in play without that team knowing. The other team then takes the ball and runs across without opposition and wins the game. DON'T DROP THE BALL! You are not finished until you are finished. Endure to the end

I love you all and miss you greatly. It has been an interesting last two transfers. However I intend not to drop the ball.

Till next time,
Elder Dallin S Pulsipher

P.S. also you may be wondering why there have not been any pictures. Well that is because I want to give you some suspense when I see you in two week.

Week 102 : Highlands Ranch

Hello everyone,

This was a hard week. I have learned that the rest of my mission will be very difficult so I will just embrace it and do  my best. My companion and I were not getting along at all. We couldn't even work together. After a while after I cooled down and after he cooled down, he apologized for not wanting to work and some other stuff. The rest of the week went a little better, but honestly no improvement was made. It has been very difficult because he doesn't want to work and is extremely trunky. 

So I will try my best to work as hard as I can. 

This Sunday I sang Come Come Ye Saints in both sacrament meetings. In one ward I sang with our investigator Catherine on Flute and here friend on Piano. The other ward I sang with a 12 year old young man and his mom played the piano. It went very well. 

Catherine had a hard week. A good friend of her's and the students at her school passed away this week unexpectedly. However she i staying strong.

I have been designing a new logo for the mission. The last one was poorly made and I asked if I can make a new one. He said he would let me try and see if he likes them. So hopefully he does.

So I got my itinerary for going home. This is it.

Leave Denver at 10:20 for a three hour flight to LA. I have almost a 4 hour layover there until 3:40. I lose an hour so I arrive in LA at around 12. I should get home around 5:20 in Sacramento. The official itinerary will be sent to you Mom and Dad. So since I have a 4 hour layover I could see some family in Southern California if they would like to go to the airport. Let me know.

Anyways I hope you all have a great week.

Till next time,
Elder Dallin S Pulsipher

Friday, July 22, 2016

Week 101 - Highlands Ranch

Hello Everyone,

This was a good week. 

Tuesday July 12:
I started the morning off with a doctors appointment for my arm. I dont need surgery luckily and might do something called bone stimulation. It includes putting my arm into a machine that using magnetic fields to help with circulation of the blood to heal it faster. I am out of the sling as well.When they took the cast off I didn't feel any better, but the x-rays show a lot of healing going on so that is good.

I just started being able to write so I don't remember a lot of what happened this week except that it was busy.

We had a lot of set up appointments We  had a few lessons with Catherine. She is getting ready for baptism and just needs permission from her parents. She is actually going to be playing the flute during sacrament meeting when I sing Come Come Ye Saints.

I went on exchanges this week on Wednesday. I was a great day because We were running from place to place, which is always fun. I was with Elder Linde who is a great missionary.

It has been going better with Elder Robinson. He wants to work, but has his spurts of Trunkiness. He is actually funny though.

I have noticed that my trunkiness has gone down significantly after the crash. I was stuck inside for 2 weeks and now I just want to work.

Other than that it has been a simple missionary week.

I hope you all have a great week as well.

Till next time,
Elder Dallin S Pulsipher

Also I have one month left as of yesterday. That is an odd feeling

Week 100 - Highlands Ranch

Hello everyone,

This was a good week. There were ups and downs but overall it was good.

Wednesday July 6: Happy Birthday Julianne!
We had an interesting day of walking. Our area is huge and takes a long time to get anywhere, so we decided to spend most of our day in one area. By the end of it I was wiped out. Since the injury I have had no energy. However it was nice to get out and work. We did have a lesson with a Caytherine. She is embracing the gospel really well and has read the Book of Mormon  through once with three notebooks.

Thursday July 7:
We started the morning with a district meeting. It went well. We luckily had a lot of appointments that day and got rides to them. They are teaching a lot more people since I have been here. That night we taught a Nepalese Family (Nepal). They fed us some food, which did not sit well, but was good. It is a young couple and his parents. He translated our lesson with his parents and I had a conversation with the father in broken English that I was surprised I understood.

Friday July 8:
I was not feeling well the first part of the day and then my companion wasnt feeling well the second part. So it was a slow day.

Saturday July 9:
Elder Robinson wasnt feeling very well all day long, so I ended up helping the Palmer's, whom we live with, with some yard work. It was interesting using one arm with limited weight. The Palmer's are extremely nice and treat us like family. We also have a big basement to live in. They also have a dog named Chance who comes downstairs sometimes. He is a lot of fun. She is a doctor, Which is helpful, and the family has done a lot.

Sunday July 10:
It was a good day. I unexpectedly taught a lesson on tithing. The wards have also changed a lot, however I got to see some people I missed. I also found out one of the missionaries out from the northridge ward is staying in the same place I am. They are one of my favorite families. We had dinner with the Price family and Catherine. We then went to mission prep class where we did a demonstration with Catherine.

So it was a good week. I am doing much better. I am a lot happier and am excited to be here. Tomorrow morning I see what they are going to do with my arm. I will let you know what it is through the Palmers.

Till next time,
Elder Dallin S Pulsipher

Week 99 - Highlands Ranch

Daniel's Baptism
Hello everyone, 

This was an interesting week.

First of all Daniel got baptized. The baptism was amazing. He just glowed afterwards, which you see a lot with people after they are baptized. There were a lot of people there and the room was packed. We almost had to use the chapel, which was our goal.

The 4th of July was great. We did soccer in the morning, which meant I was the referee. I don't know how to ref so I just gave people random colored cards for doing certain things, such as kicking it far away is a green card. That night we did fireworks at the Bury's. They had some good stuff and some YSA trying to see all the cool things they can do with fireworks. People have been shooting off fireworks for the last 5 nights. Not just ground ones but huge airborne ones. It was 4th of July weekend pretty much.

I got transferred and so did elder armistead which was a shock. Basically A lot of changes have happened in the mission because we got a new mission president. President and Sister Gifford. They are amazing and seem to be extremely prepared.

I wasn't entirely happy with my changes though. I am now in a Falcon Park and Northridge, Which is the last area I served in Highlands Ranch. 
The Murrays

It is very difficult, I'm with a challenging companion and I am on foot. I go home with this elder so the area is going to be whitewashed at the end of the transfer. This is not what I was told would happen, but that is what I got, so i might as well make the best out of it.

So that was my week. I am glad I am so close to my previous area, because I loved it. We have some new missionaries in the zone and some great ones so that should be great. 

Anyways, I  will see you in 6 weeks.

Till next Time,
The Bury Family
The Karrens
Elder Dallin S Pulsipher
Soccer
The Christensen Family